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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - Competition on Worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
(It's nice to meet you.)
The ancestors and newborn babies of idol singers...
- gathered here today. - That's right.
The mixed-gender group that is celebrating its 20th anniversary,
KOYOTE!
- Hello. - Hello.
- We're KOYOTE. - Welcome.
(Congratulations on your 20th anniversary.)
It's been a little longer than 100 days since their debut.
Soo Min and Lara of DreamNote!
Welcome!
(Soo Min and Lara of DreamNote)
Shinji, you made your debut when you were their age, right?
Yes. I made my debut when I was 18.
You were 18?
- How old are you, Soo Min and Lara? - How old are you?
I just turned 20.
- I'm 19 years old. - I see.
They made their debut around the same age.
- Yes. - How do you feel?
You started your career when you were their age.
They look young and fresh.
It's hard to believe that I was once their age.
- Exactly. - I know.
- Please say hello to the viewers. - Great.
- "Hello, we're DreamNote." - They must have their own chant.
Something like this.
What was that?
Okay. We'll start. 2, 3.
- I'm your present. - I'm your present.
- Hello. We're DreamNote. - I can't do that.
"I'm your present."
(They're cute.)
Did KOYOTE also have this kind of chant?
- Yes, we did. - Show us.
- Let's start with you. - It's your 20th anniversary.
You won't do it because you're popular?
Hello. We are... "Ko" as in "high".
- "Yo" as in "shine". - "Te" as in "enormous".
- We're KOYOTE. - We're KOYOTE.
(KOYOTE)
- "Ko" as in "high"? - I see what it means.
That's the greeting style 20 years ago.
- We used Chinese characters. - Right.
What do you think made it possible for you to last so long?
Shinji has been leading the group...
as the pillar of the group.
Also, she's very generous when it comes to money matters.
Pardon?
- Money matters? - Does she not take her cut?
It's not like that.
She shares it with us.
- She sings the most part. - That's true.
Considering the portion of the song we sing,
we should be paid very little.
- We should be. - Right.
- Jong Min is right. - "We should be paid very little."
- I admit it. - In fact,
it's hard for a mixed gender group to last long...
because sometimes, the members...
- fall in love with each other. - That's right.
Many idol groups disband because of that.
- I'm curious about it too. - They don't see me as a woman.
- Really? - Yes.
Then do you see them as men?
We don't see each other as the opposite gender.
- I see. - When I'm with them,
- I act like a man. - Do you?
Can you also take a bath with them?
I guess not. Of course, not.
- Hey. - I understand.
- What are you talking about? - That's how close you guys are.
- They can't take a bath together. - That was funny.
We've heard what Shinji thinks.
What do you think, Jong Min and Bbaek Ga?
Shinji and I have been friends since before our debut,
so I never thought of her as a woman.
However, I once thought of her as a woman...
when she asked us to leave so she could change her clothes.
Of course, you should give her privacy to change.
- "Oh, she's a woman too." - Yes.
- You should give her privacy. - My goodness.
- You felt that way only then? - Yes.
Lara, I heard you prepared something...
for KOYOTE.
Yes. I'm sure you have never seen this before.
I can make a sound with my stomach.
- Is that right? - With your stomach?
Will you pretend the sound comes from your stomach...
when it comes from somewhere else?
- No. Right here. - I see.
You have to listen carefully.
I'll start.
(She focuses on her stomach.)
Can you hear it?
I can hear it.
(What is she doing?)
Does it make a sound when you're hungry?
(She tries again.)
(What sound...)
(can she make?)
(All eyes are on her.)
- What's that sound? - I can hear it.
I don't hear anything.
- Right. - I can't believe this.
She got attention by doing such a weird thing.
- I was so surprised. - What kind of sound...
- Exactly. - This is unbelievable.
- I don't hear anything. - What was that?
- Since it's my first appearance, - I want to hear it.
- I must be very nervous. - She's nervous.
- Make sure it works next time. - Okay.
- All right. - By the way, you released...
- your new song, "Fact". - Could you sing for us?
Thank you.
(Let's hear their new song.)
Gosh. Seriously.
("Fact" by KOYOTE)
It's no use
(The leader sings his heart out.)
I'm going to become happy
(Enthusiastic)
So that nothing in my life will be ruined
(Shinji's powerful voice makes everyone feel so good.)
(Cheerful)
My happiness
(Dancing overzealously)
Matters more than being with you
(We are KOYOTE.)
(They finished their performance nicely!)
(You are fabulous.)
Bbaek Ga, why didn't you sing?
- We started after my part. - Right.
- He raps in the beginning. - That's right.
Today, we have three stories as always.
Show us the keywords please.
The three keywords. "Uncomfortable Attention".
"Please Stop This Late Bloomer". "A Man Who Can't".
("Uncomfortable Attention")
"Uncomfortable Attention".
Hello.
I'm a housewife in my 30s, and I have a 6-year-old child.
These days, I get stressed out whenever I go out with my child.
Other people say,
"Oh, my. Your daughter is so pretty. She looks like a princess."
Do you want to ask what the problem is?
- Actually, my child is a boy. - What?
The reason why the audiences are surprised because...
the boy who must be her son is sitting in the audience,
but it's hard to think he's a boy.
- He's so cute. - Right?
The reason why people mistake him as a girl...
is because of his long hair.
In fact, it's to donate his hair.
He's growing his hair to donate it.
That's so nice of him.
But no matter how hard I try to explain the reason,
people say, "What's the point of donating his hair?"
"Cut his hair immediately. He'll lose his private part."
"Is he really a boy? Shall I touch his private part?"
(Crying)
"Don't touch my private part."
(He cries out sadly.)
That was the best acting he's ever done.
(Dong Yeob specializes in a particular area of the body.)
People give too much attention and cross the line.
I can't stand it anymore.
However, what makes me upset more than anything...
"Honey, I met another man in the subway..."
"who asked me if our son was a girl earlier today."
"Why did you let him grow his hair and cause this problem?"
"Shall I cut his hair?"
Is it wrong of him to grow his hair...
to help others?
It's been hard because I felt like no one was on my side.
So I decided to go on the show. Please help me resolve the problem.
(I wish my husband was on my side.)
It sounds strange to us as well.
A little boy grows his hair...
- to donate it? - He's going to donate his hair.
I wonder what made him decide to do that.
Let's hear the details.
Please come out.
(Who is upset because people misunderstand her son?)
(Jung Eun Young)
Please introduce yourself.
Hello. I'm Ha Yul's mom,
and I'm from Daegu.
- He's so cute. - Oh, my.
- He's so cute. - He's really cute.
How long has your son been growing his hair?
He started growing his hair when he was five,
so it's been almost a year.
Right now, he has...
shoulder length hair.
In your letter, you said...
that he's growing his hair to donate it.
What's the purpose of it?
If you send it to the children's cancer center,
they can make a wig...
for child cancer patients.
- They make human hair wigs. - That's right.
For child cancer patients? Then is there...
a minimum length of hair for donation?
The minimum length is 25cm.
So he needs to keep growing his hair until then.
- It must be longer than 25cm. - I see.
Can't an adult donate hair?
No. Adults...
have a lot of damaged hair, and we often have our hair permed...
or dyed. Damaged hair like this...
melts away in the chemical process.
They need healthy hair.
What did you say when you suggested it to your son?
My son is interested in the environmental issues...
and watches a lot of documentaries.
- A six-year-old boy does? - He watches documentaries?
One day, he saw a turtle...
- with a straw in its nose... - It drew a lot of attention.
- in a documentary. - Plastic pollution.
While we were talking about the ways of protecting the environment,
he asked what he could do for the environment.
- He asked that? - Yes.
He asked, "What can I do, Mom?" at that young age?
That's right. I said that he could donate his hair...
since he has healthy hair.
- Did he say he'd do it? - Yes.
- He said he would donate it. - It's so great of him.
- He's so thoughtful. - He's a little boy,
but he asked what he could do.
Dong Yeob, what can I do?
You can keep eating.
Do you think it helps others?
Even if people look at him weird,
you can tell them about his good intention, they'll understand.
Young people mostly understand that,
but elderly people say,
"That's ridiculous."
"Go to your mom and ask her to cut your hair right now."
They keep saying that.
- Even after you explained why? - Yes.
- Gosh. - "How can I tell if he's a boy?"
And they even touch his private part slightly.
- Gosh. - Some people do that.
Are there still people like them these days?
Some elderly people do that.
- Right. - By any chance,
has your son ever said...
that he was stressed out?
Since he's only six,
he doesn't say that he's stressed out.
But telling everyone he meets...
that he's a boy...
became a habit.
I'm sure he's been stressed out a little.
I think so. And when adults ask him to let them...
touch his private part, he says no.
"It's precious for me." He refuses like this.
- Good for him. - He's right.
- Let's meet her son now. - Are we going to meet her son?
Hello.
- Hi. - Hello.
- My goodness. He's so cute. - Hello.
Welcome.
- Please introduce yourself. - He's so cute.
To the mic.
- What is your name? - I am Kim Ha Yul.
And I'm six years old.
How old are you?
Yes.
Okay. I see.
Ha Yul, you look great with long hair.
Why are you growing your hair?
It's because I want to help other people.
- That's great. - He knows what he's doing.
But when the weather is hot,
wouldn't you feel too hot...
and sweat a lot because of your hair?
He can tie his hair.
I don't know.
(I see.)
It's not uncomfortable now.
When other people ask...
if you are a girl and ask you to let them...
see your private part, how does it make you feel?
It makes me upset.
When were you upset the most, Ha Yul?
When people asked me to show them my private part.
- Right. - What did you say to them?
- When you're upset... - "Don't touch my private part."
- I see. - He can express himself.
Ha Yul, you can just have your hair cut.
Then people would know that you're a boy.
Actually, I'm growing my hair...
because I'm afraid of getting a haircut.
(It's a big twist.)
- It's a twist. - That's an unexpected answer.
- It's a twist. - That's unexpected.
- Why? Why are you afraid of it? - I didn't expect to hear it.
- What's going on? - "Actually, I'm just..."
- "afraid of getting a haircut." - My goodness.
- Is that why he's growing his hair? - But...
- This is new. - Ha Yul, what are you afraid of?
Are you afraid of scissors or something else?
I'm afraid of scissors.
- You're afraid of scissors. - Ha Yul,
- let's make it clear now. - Okay.
All of us including your mom thought that you wanted to...
- donate your hair. - It's a big twist.
Are you growing it...
only because you're afraid of having a haircut?
Yes.
(Feeling vain)
(His answer turned the studio upside down.)
- What's going on? - My goodness.
Listen to me. It's only normal for him to say that.
He turned six this year.
Ma'am, did you know that he was growing his hair...
because he was afraid of having a haircut?
All children are afraid of it.
I knew that he was afraid of scissors.
But I also asked him...
what he would do when his hair grows 25cm long.
Then he said he'll endure his fear.
- Right. - When his hair is 25cm long,
he'll have his hair cut. Won't you be afraid?
I will try to endure my fear.
- "I will try to endure my fear." - That's great.
- He's adorable. - Right.
How do you feel...
when you see your friends with short hair?
It makes me upset.
- What? - Why?
It's because they can't...
help other people.
My goodness.
- He knows what he's doing. - He knows.
- That's great of him. - Everyone, we must learn from him.
- We must... - Give him a round of applause.
(Everyone applauds him.)
- However... - He's so thoughtful.
All right. We haven't found any problems yet.
Even though he's afraid of scissors,
- he chose to grow his hair... - He wants to help other people.
- to help other people. He knows it. - Exactly.
However, his dad, her husband,
is against it, which is why she sent us her story.
To be honest, I fully understand how his dad must feel.
- Yes. - Sir, you are against...
your son growing his hair, right?
Yes. Even now, he seems to be hot,
so I want to cut it short.
When we go to public bathrooms,
they act as if he's a cleaning lady.
They're startled by him.
They get closer to the urinals.
(The men are aware of his son.)
- And... - They mistake him as a girl?
Even if he was a girl,
- he's still a kid. - He's a kid.
- They still tend to do that. - I can't believe they do that.
When my son is using the urinal,
they keep glancing at him.
I'm not comfortable with that.
(He doesn't understand why his son needs to go through that.)
But isn't the thought of his hair going to charity wonderful?
I do like the purpose of it, but I think...
involving my son in such charities...
from such a young age...
is a bit peculiar to me.
I want him to have a normal life.
(He wishes for an ordinary life.)
It'd be fine if he was conscious of values or whatnot.
I'm afraid that he'll become flustered...
later on in life about how girls should have long hair...
and guys shouldn't.
So you're just worried about something...
- that hasn't happened yet. - Right.
There is a possibility that he could overcome it.
- Right. - Right?
Do you think your son is stressed...
because he needs to grow his hair out?
When our relatives come over,
and they play together, they sometimes jokingly ask...
to see what's underneath his pants.
- The relatives say that? - Yes. They were just joking,
but since my son was so young,
all that he did was cry.
I got very angry with my wife...
and demanded that he cut his hair.
You should've gotten angry at your relatives,
- not your wife. - Right.
- He's just a boy. - How could he get mad at them?
Why not?
They're family.
(How could families do that?)
What? Come on.
He doesn't have to get mad.
He wouldn't be like, "Hey! What are you doing?"
He could just ask them nicely.
He could explain the situation.
He could tell them that kids these days don't like that.
- I see. - He could be nice about it.
Do you think perhaps your son also doesn't like it...
but can't express it?
After my son started crying that day,
my husband asked me why I had to make our son suffer.
I went to my son and comforted him.
I told him that if it was that hard, he didn't have to do it.
But he told me that he'll try to overcome it.
He wiped away his tears...
- and told me so. - He said that?
How did he know the word "overcome"?
- Ha Yul. - Yes?
Do you remember crying in front of your relatives?
Yes.
Did you tell her that you'll try to overcome it?
Yes.
What were you trying to overcome?
(They're in doubt.)
The hardship.
(He understands what "overcome" means.)
- Look at him. - Goodness.
- I know. - He tried to overcome the hardship.
How were you trying to overcome it?
- Come on, Yeong Ja. - You went too far.
- I was just curious. - I thought...
you were talking to a 36-year-old.
I was just impressed by how much he understood.
(I'm a bit mature for my own age.)
At that time, were you also upset...
that you even thought about cutting your hair?
- Were you? - No.
- Really? - No?
- He's firm. - I know.
- I can see it in his face. - That's amazing.
He looks confident.
(I respect his opinion.)
Sir.
Do you wish for Ha Yul to cut his hair even now?
Yes.
Even if he's fine with it?
I'm not sure whether or not he really means it.
(He can't stop doubting him.)
I'm curious. Then why didn't you stop him...
- Right. - in the very beginning...
when he was going to grow his hair out?
I didn't know at first.
- What? - For months, I told my wife...
that his hair was growing quite long...
and that he should cut it.
After about 4 to 5 months during the summer,
I found him tying his hair.
I asked her why she didn't cut his hair.
That's when she told me...
that she was planning to donate his hair.
Do you mean she didn't talk with you about this beforehand?
She only told me later on.
Does she tend to do that with other stuff as well?
If it's regarding my son, I tend to be the last one to know.
I think the issue here is about your wife, not your son.
(Their communication seems to be the issue.)
I guess you must not be happy...
about how she decides on everything...
and tells you about it at the end.
No, I'm not.
I used to talk with him before.
But since our outlooks on raising a kid are different,
we kept getting into conflicts.
- Really? - That's why...
I stopped discussing things with him.
I thought that making the decision myself...
and telling him afterward prevented us from fighting.
Is that why you didn't discuss this with your husband as well?
Yes, that's why.
Actually, I didn't tell him about appearing on this show either.
Does that mean she told you that you had to appear on this show?
- Yes. - When did you find out...
that you had to come to this show?
About that, I later found out...
when the writer called me.
She said I had to do an interview.
- You found out through her? - Wait.
Yes.
(I'm sorry about that.)
I'd like to know how your outlooks differ...
regarding raising a child.
He wants our son to be raised in a normal environment.
He wants him to go to daycare and then to kindergarten.
But I'm currently not sending him anywhere.
- Is he at home? - Yes.
I'm taking care of him at home.
- She's homeschooling him. - That's nice.
And although Ha Yul is six, I ban him from eating junk foods...
such as chocolates, candies, snacks, and fast foods.
I don't let him have any.
- What does he eat then? - What does he have for snacks?
- Those are delicious. - For snacks,
I make them myself at times.
Or sometimes, I give him fruits, rice puffs,
- You give him healthy foods. - or rice cakes.
But you need to monitor your son until the end.
Because I know a friend who grew up like that,
and in middle school, he started drinking and smoking.
So you can't give up midway. You have to pull through.
That's what my husband is afraid of.
He says that if we restrict Ha Yul's diet too much right now,
he'll start binging on them later.
He talks about how watching his friends eat those things...
- would stress him out... - That's true.
since he can't have them.
(Suppressing his appetite will stress him out.)
If his friends invite him...
to have tteokbokki with them after school,
but he refuses to go since he's not allowed to eat it,
I'm afraid he won't get along with them.
- For his socializing skills, - Right.
- you think he needs to practice. - Yes, I do.
But you know, Ha Yul thinks so deeply and is eloquent.
I don't think you'll need to worry about that.
When his friends ask him to have tteokbokki with them,
he could just say that he's going home to have rice with thistle.
(He can politely refuse.)
(The parents have mixed emotions.)
(Don't worry too much, Dad.)
- But... - If he's not going to daycare,
that means he's spending the entire day with his mom.
He tends to rely on her a lot.
Even if she needs to go somewhere,
she can't be absent for too long.
She can only throw away food waste after Ha Yul is sleeping.
If I jokingly hit my wife,
he comes and hits me as well.
He says he needs to protect her.
(He stands his ground.)
Did you only side with your mom?
Yes.
Why did you do that?
Because my dad can do things that go against my mom,
but my mom can't do that.
How could he talk like that?
(Impressed)
He's really eloquent.
That's amazing.
That's amazing. But Ha Yul,
don't you want to go to kindergarten...
since your other friends do?
- No, I don't. - Why?
- Your friends are all there. - I like being with my mom more.
He likes being with his mom.
- I see. - Do you know what chocolates are?
Have you tried any?
No.
- Do you not know its taste? - No.
- What do you think it tastes like? - Okay, let me explain the taste.
- Don't do that. Why would you? - Come on.
(Yeong Ja TV, Episode: Chocolate)
(He looks the happiest right now.)
(Oh, dear.)
(He's caught by Yeong Ja.)
(She continues to tempt him.)
What do you think it tastes like?
(What is his reply?)
- Spicy. - "Spicy"?
(She fails to successfully tempt him.)
Don't you want to try some?
No.
(Sullen)
Your husband mentioned...
- about Ha Yul's socializing skills. - Right.
What do you think?
I've never once worried...
about his socializing skills.
Just because I'm homeschooling him...
doesn't mean he's in a bubble.
We go to the cultural center,
study together,
- and go the church's kindergarten. - There's that.
He also participates in other activities...
where he can meet friends his age.
I've been doing that.
Since she rarely discusses them and just tells me later on,
it is true that it upsets me a lot.
- If I try to discuss with him, - He gets mad?
he gets mad, and we fight.
None of the things she decides to do are normal.
She insists taking care of everything herself.
It's like a vicious cycle.
She doesn't tell you things because when she does, you get mad...
and stop her from doing them.
(Don't fight.)
To be honest, it is true...
that none of my decisions are normal.
I have plans such as...
going around the world with my son.
With your husband's money?
Exactly.
My son and I go to places without him knowing.
We frequent Seoul without telling him.
We frequent Gyeongju without telling him.
Because when I tell him about it,
he'll say that I'm taking our son to dangerous places.
I feel like you two keep trying to avoid conflicts.
But I believe that...
whether they're a couple, a family, siblings, or friends,
it's more important to know how to fight well instead of...
- avoiding it. - She's a good fighter.
I see.
You know what?
Homeschooling sounds easy,
but you have to take care of your child...
- all day long. - It's tiring.
- It's really hard. - Right.
I always tell other people...
that childcare is my thing...
and that I'm so happy...
to spend time with my child.
When I was on my sixth month of pregnancy,
I discharged blood too much...
that I had to stay in the hospital for two months.
Oh, no.
While I was going through that time,
I was determined to protect my baby.
And I thought I'd be more caring to him...
- if he was born safely. - To be more caring.
(She said to herself that she'd love him more if he was born safely.)
I gave birth to him on my eighth month,
- so he had to stay in an incubator. - You gave birth prematurely.
Right, we had to be apart for two weeks.
(She gets too emotional to continue.)
(She wanted to cherish him because it was so hard to have him.)
You had such determination.
Ha Yul, are you heartbroken to see your mom cry?
- Yes. - You don't want her to cry?
- No. - Tell Mr. Shin...
not to ask questions then.
(Her comment totally breaks the mood.)
His question has made her cry.
Tell your mom...
to stop crying. Ready, go.
Mom, please don't cry.
(She smiles brightly at the word of her son.)
How cute.
It must be reassuring to have a son like him.
Is there anything incomprehensible...
among her notices?
In case of our second child...
- What? - Our second child.
In case of our second child,
she said she'd have another child when Ha Yul grows up.
But now,
she's planning on having our second child.
So she notified she'd have another child...
without discussing with you?
That's right.
- Is that possible? - I mean...
Is that even possible?
- At first, - You must be thinking,
"Let's see if it goes as you want."
(He is feeling embarrassed.)
It can't be notified.
Why did you do it?
What scared me the most was,
"What if I get hospitalized again?"
The past experience traumatized you.
But I'm thinking of sending Ha Yul to preschool when he turns seven.
Then I'll have some free time.
Then things will be okay even if I fall sick.
But before then,
- I won't have any other child. - She's thoughtful.
Are you aware that your wife is thinking of...
having another child when Ha Yul turns seven...
because of her trauma?
(Is he aware?)
- No. - Is it your first time finding out?
Is it your first time hearing this?
(I didn't have any other intention.)
Here's what's important.
Your husband wants to raise Ha Yul in an ordinary way...
while you want to raise him unlike the others.
What's your ultimate goal on this?
People around me say...
that our child is smart,
but I don't care about such a thing.
What matters to me is his happiness.
That's what I care about the most.
He's happy enough even if he doesn't go to school.
Whether he goes to elementary, middle, or high school,
I want my son to be happy...
and to do what he wants.
- That's wise of you. - That's nice.
- Sir. - The child should be happy.
Don't you agree with her on this?
The most important thing is...
to raise him as a happy child...
so that he's happier than others...
even when he grows up.
- But... - But I don't know...
if he's really happy about it...
or impregnated by her repeated education.
She said her dream is for her son to grow up happily,
but happy parents make their child happy.
If Ha Yul's dad gets stressed out...
and loses his self-esteem, it'll affect him.
I'm worried it might not be much happiness to him.
Thus, the top priority...
is the communication between the parents...
for the sake of Ha Yul's happiness.
(They must communicate for their son's sake.)
Even if you have to argue...
because your opinions don't meet,
you still have to persuade, make him understand,
and accept his opinion. It might be difficult,
but you've got to tell him beforehand.
Right, you should.
- How about you discuss with him? - Right.
- I avoided it... - I understand.
because I didn't want to argue with him in front of our son.
(Mom and Dad, feel free to communicate.)
From now on,
I'll try to discuss...
everything with you.
Good.
You came out here...
because of the matter about your son's hair.
(They totally forgot.)
- Right. - What was the subject?
- We went way off the track. - Goodness.
The husband wants their son to have his hair short...
while the wife wants to keep it long for a year...
and discuss the matter again after then.
Can you wait a year?
We'll have to face other people's conception...
for a year then.
(Is it already the end of trying to communicate with his wife?)
As long as our son can put up with it,
I won't be against it.
(He makes a huge decision.)
I see.
I'd like my parents to be on good terms without fighting.
- Gosh. - That's the answer.
(The two smile bright at their child's remark.)
Ha Yul, is there anything you want to say in front of other people?
He's thinking.
(Excited)
Grow hair to help out the sick.
- How cute. - Good.
He's so smart.
- I know. - He's so smart.
Please say a word to your son or wife too, sir.
Thank you for raising...
and teaching our son well.
(She is listening.)
I'll be ready to hear you out,
so open up and tell me what you have in mind first.
(He'd like his wife to open up and share her thought with him.)
(She gets emotional.)
I guess it's her first time hearing him say this.
Let's make her cry more while we're at it.
- She looks so sad. - Tell her how much you love her.
- Tell her how much you love her. - Do it.
Hold your mic.
It's nothing much.
I know.
It would've been so good if you had told her this earlier.
(The husband becomes emotional too.)
(He finally tears down...)
(the wall of distrust which he had against her for a long time.)
(And she finally realizes...)
(how apologetic and thankful he has been in his heart.)
(Ha Yul comes forward to change the mood.)
(You shouldn't cry for an adult.)
(He's right. Stop crying now.)
I love you.
(He expresses his love for her at the end.)
- Both of them are so delicate. - I know.
- In case they'd hurt each other. - They held their feelings in...
not to hurt each other.
- I know. - Gosh.
- They love each other too much. - Exactly.
So when will you have another baby?
(He wants to make sure of it.)
When will you start putting your effort for it?
Ha Yul is going to be tired today.
That's cool.
- How cool. - Let's have a glass of beer later.
Thank you.
(We're cheering for their happy childrearing.)
(And we're cheering for their happiness too.)
Tell us what you think starting from Bbaek Ga.
They can worry about this issue when their son becomes...
- capable of making decisions. - That's right.
If the two keep confronting against each other,
it'll make their son confused which will eventually lead...
- to his unhappiness. - Right.
Unless it's legally problematic...
(What on earth?)
(They're lost for words.)
- I mean... - If it was a legal issue,
- they wouldn't have come out here. - I know.
Unless it's such a case,
- we should respect diversity. - I get your point.
I don't think it's a worry.
I can tell...
Ha Yul wants to do it.
Press the button if you think it's a worry.
(Please post about various worries of you, your family, and friends.)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Let's see how many votes she got.
Show us the result.
How many votes did she get among 200?
(How much do the audience empathize with this story?)
Is it more than 100 votes?
- It's 65. - 65 votes.
(65 votes)
"Please Stop This Late Bloomer".
Hello, I'm reporting my 42-year-old brother, who's having a fling late.
(What kind of fling is this?)
"Are you coming over to celebrate Father's birthday?"
"I'm busy, bye."
"Hey, it's Lunar New Year today,"
"and our parents are waiting. Shouldn't you come over?"
"Mind your own business, and I'm busy. Bye."
This has continued for five years now.
He even quit his work...
for this live-streaming.
"I get that you want to do your channel,"
"but you've got to work."
"Mind your own business. I'll take care of it myself."
He said he'd take care of his business,
but he lived off his wife...
and later got divorced.
(He ended up getting divorced.)
(No wonder.)
My mother asked,
"Can you try to talk it over with your brother?"
I tried a serious conversation with him for my family.
"Hey,"
"how are you going to make a living like this?"
"Wait, what is this?"
"Isn't this a camera?"
"Are you streaming now?"
"It's all right. Don't mind this camera."
"Just say whatever you want to say."
(He filmed without permission?)
What should I do with my brother?
Please stop him.
(Please help him come to his senses.)
What do you think about the story?
I already have a YouTube channel.
How long has it been?
It's the second season, so it's been quite a while.
Why would you ask Shinji?
Why ask Shinji when it's your channel?
Why would she answer him?
We sometimes go on his show, so I know.
I sympathize with him.
When you do it alone, it's sometimes tough.
I call my friends a lot.
- He unexpectedly asks for help. - I unexpectedly call them.
I get help from them.
It's embarrassing, but there are times when I have to do it.
So I can understand where he comes from.
Recently, through Great Library's help,
I created a channel.
- Did you start a channel? - I did just several days ago.
I don't know what to do.
- I heard... - I heard it's not easy.
- it's not easy. - It's work.
You can't enjoy it.
In a way, I regretted starting the channel.
- That's why I... - I should've just done...
what people tell me to do until the day I go.
Let's bring him out.
(Who's worried about his brother who neglects his family...)
(for his YouTube channel?)
(It's exciting.)
(Kim Se Hyun)
(Falling)
- Someone helps him. - Who?
(It's a lonely start.)
I guess I will help him.
It's fine. My goodness.
Don't do anything. Okay?
(She tightly bites her lips.)
You wrote that your brother got divorced...
because of the YouTube channel.
He'd been married for nine years,
and he had two daughters.
- He had two daughters. - Yes. He was the breadwinner.
He once ran his own business.
And his business used to be very successful.
(He thought his brother had a promising future ahead of him.)
But five years ago, he suddenly...
got into running a YouTube channel.
And it ruined his life.
- It is ruining his life. - So he was fine...
before he started his channel.
- Yes. - Why did running a channel...
- make him get divorced? - For two years...
After he quit his job,
he only spent time on running his channel.
He didn't have any source of income.
My sister-in-law had to...
take a job as a result.
He even ended up using his wife and his children...
for his channel.
Last year, they ended up getting divorced.
What kind of a channel does he run?
Every channel has a concept.
He runs a show on...
- the platform called AfreecaTV. - The South African TV.
- South African. - He does all kinds of things.
- He eats, cooks, - He does everything.
and fishes during his show.
He just films his daily life.
But he's neither handsome...
nor fun.
If he wants to make money through his channel,
he should eat more than other people.
- Or he should eat grossly. - He should eat really well.
Or he should eat something unique.
He should develop his contents like that.
But he goes on air just because he likes it.
- He doesn't work. - It should be his work.
Then he must not earn much.
On the second year,
he bragged to me about his income.
It was about 500 dollars a month.
- In a month? - Yes.
(How can he raise two daughters with that money?)
Just like what you wrote in the letter,
does he not attend important family meetings?
Most of the time, he missed them because of his shows.
I guess he doesn't have a show today.
I think he didn't schedule one to be on this show.
- Oh, for this show. - This is a show too.
Do you think he will become more popular through this?
I don't know. Honestly,
I don't even want to talk about that possibility.
That might be your brother's intention.
But this is a real worry...
- for you. - Yes.
(I can't just watch him anymore.)
Let's meet his brother. Hello.
(Who is his 42-year-old brother...)
(obsessed about his YouTube channel?)
Can you understand your brother's concern?
Of course, I can't.
What can't you understand?
Everything.
(Gosh.)
When you were talking to our writer,
you said you not only couldn't understand him...
but also couldn't forgive him.
If his brother is running an online channel,
as a brother, shouldn't he cheer for me?
(He thinks his little brother has to cheer for him.)
- What? - Just because he's your brother...
doesn't mean he has to cheer for you.
- But we are family. - What?
(She can't believe what she heard.)
Since you are a member of the family,
shouldn't you attend family events?
When I do, they always bring up about my channel...
and the divorce.
- They nag. - Yes. I avoid it.
How long have you been running the channel?
- It's been 8 years. - 8 years.
But I started doing it full-time five years ago.
By the way, why did running your channel...
cause you to get divorced?
To reveal my daily life, I started filming my family.
My children...
and my wife had to be on the show.
In a way, that's the invasion of privacy, you know.
That made us keep getting into fights.
Whenever I couldn't run the show, I asked my wife to do it.
You asked her to run the show alone?
- Yes. - You asked her to host the show?
Yes. Even only for a while.
- Why? - For 1 to 2 hours.
People attacked her with mean comments.
I am used to them, so I can handle them.
But my wife doesn't know.
I have fans who give me balloons,
and she got into trouble with them too.
If she doesn't want to, she doesn't have to be on your show.
When there's a woman,
more people watch it.
(More people watch when there's a woman.)
(They are shocked.)
But that doesn't justify your action of making your wife be on the show.
(Is your family a tool?)
Didn't you feel sorry to your wife...
for getting attacked by those mean people?
I felt sorry,
but tension is important.
Flow is very important.
If she wanted to help me,
she had to play along.
We heard while you were running the channel,
your wife had to make a living for the family.
- Yes. - So she had to make money...
and appear on your show.
But if she helps me a little more...
and I become successful, wouldn't that be better for our family?
But what's the point of her making your channel successful?
It's your channel.
I've been on TV for 21 years.
But I still become uncomfortable...
- when there are cameras around. - You become conscious.
Your family...
are not TV personalities.
If you think from the point of view of your family,
they might want you to protect them...
since you are their family.
If it's for finding my dream...
and achieving that dream,
them appearing on my show for a while,
for 1 to 2 hours is...
not asking too much.
(He's really frustrating.)
(He's unbelievable.)
What kind of contents do you produce now?
On Fridays, I broadcast...
an eating show with my children.
On Saturdays,
I broadcast a show about playing with my children.
We visit good restaurants in Cheongju.
On Sundays, I broadcast a fishing show.
In the evening, I broadcast a drinking show...
and communicate with the viewers.
On Saturdays and Sundays, I broadcast all day,
for about 10 to 12 hours.
[VIU Ver] E404 Hello Counselor "Communication" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
(He got excited talking about his channel.)
Excuse me for asking, but how much do you make?
A little less than 500 dollars.
(He makes a little less than 500 dollars a month.)
- In a month? - In a month?
- Yes, in a month. - How much less than 500 dollars?
Is it 470 dollars?
Can you give us a precise number?
I earn about 499 dollars.
(He earns about 499 dollars.)
That's really funny.
(What's up with the atmosphere?)
By the way,
you have to make enough money...
to afford your living. You should make your parents worry less.
You have to spend some on your children too.
Isn't it better to get another job?
- I... - I am curious about your thoughts.
This is what I think.
What you are saying is all right.
My show isn't fun.
I am not handsome.
I don't eat a lot. My contents aren't good either.
But I will continue to run my shows until I am 80.
It's nice that you are driven. We're not blaming you for it.
But we're concerned about the situation you are in.
- The financial situation. - You have two children.
(How will you afford to raise two children?)
With 499 dollars,
it's hard to make a living.
I am working.
Are you working?
Yes. I am working.
But I plan to quit it soon and become a full-time creator.
He says he's working.
I think it's only temporary.
Even after finishing college,
he spent four years playing games. He just played at home.
Our family situation wasn't good at the time.
Because of that, I couldn't go to college for two years.
I worked in a factory for two years...
and gave all my money to my parents.
I guess I just wanted to play at that time.
(He's thick-faced.)
You can't be so irresponsible.
Your family was in a bad situation, and your brother worked so hard.
Do you know that your brother gave up college for two years...
because of the bad family situation?
I found out about only later.
- Did you live separately? - We lived together.
You lived together,
but you didn't know about your brother's situation?
Do you know that he is your brother?
Why didn't he know? You lived in the same house.
At the time, I didn't blame him.
Our mother is...
very generous to him.
- She's generous to the eldest. - Yes. That's her style.
He must feel sad.
So I had no choice but to work...
for my family.
Even if we were to have a serious conversation,
he only talks about the things he want.
Even when Mom talks to him,
he doesn't listen.
I asked him out for a drink to have a serious conversation.
He suddenly installed...
a camera in the front.
(That's beyond what we imagined.)
You were here.
Where did he install the camera?
He fixed it so that both of us will be in the frame.
I refused.
We were going to talk about our family...
and even his divorce.
He had to tell me.
What?
He should've told me...
that he wanted to have a serious conversation.
- But... - He just asked me to drink.
Was the camera rolling?
- No. - Before he said it?
- It started when he arrived. - I started filming when he came.
Did you ask for his permission?
He didn't say anything. Doesn't that mean he's okay with it?
"He didn't say anything. Doesn't that mean he's okay with it?"
- What do you mean? - If he didn't like it,
he should've told me to stop when I was installing the camera.
Would you have not filmed it...
if he said he wanted to have a serious conversation?
- Yes. I wouldn't have filmed it. - He said no.
- He says he told you no. - I said no.
I don't remember it.
(He gives us chills.)
(This is why they can't talk.)
Did your parents come?
Our mother is 70 years old now.
But she still works as a cleaner.
(She cleans even on weekends to make a living for the family.)
I think my brother got this trait from my father.
- My father also... - Is he a YouTuber too?
- Your father? - No.
- You said they are alike. - He hasn't worked...
for a long time. He's not doing anything.
That's why our mother is still working.
So she couldn't come.
Our father came with us.
Let's meet his father.
- Hello, sir. - Hello.
Hello.
Is what he said right? Or did he exaggerate things?
- What do you think? - Everything he said is right.
(Why is he so relaxed?)
Don't you feel sad?
I guess we are similar.
You are admitting it right away?
(It's not the time to laugh.)
Are you worried a lot because of your eldest son?
Yes. I am very worried. I told him he should...
quit running his channel and get a decent job.
But he won't get a job.
I never imagined he would get divorced.
Right. But do you know what your son is into?
I don't know anything about broadcasting.
That's it?
That's it.
(He's got a character.)
He's cute.
"I don't know anything about broadcasting."
He's from Chungcheong Province,
- so we have to wait for him. - I am an old man.
(Being slow is the charm of someone from Chungcheong Province.)
You are very worried about him, so you could scold him.
- Yes. - "Come to your senses, boy."
"You are too old to be doing this. Are you out of your mind?"
"Is it the time to be going after your dream?"
"You should be helping your children achieve their dream."
Why are you saying what you want to say?
I think that's what his father would want to say.
He's over 40.
Even if I am his parent, I can't...
tell him what to do. It's not like he's going to listen to me.
- He's a grown-up. - Yes.
I guess he won't do it in the future.
He says he will continue to do it until he's 80.
- What? - He said, "Just leave him."
"It's his life, so he will do what's best for him."
"Just let him do what he wants." So I fought with my father a lot.
Even now, my parents are...
worried that he will starve.
They get him food too.
- They do? - But...
I think you should leave him alone.
Talking to him won't change him.
Why do you bother keep talking to him?
He doesn't change.
He even got a loan...
- to pay for his living. - He's got debts.
- Right now? - Yes.
My parents don't know...
- about the debts. - Do you know...
how much he's indebted?
I don't know the exact amount. But several tens of thousands.
How much is your debt?
About 40 to 50,000 dollars.
(He's got the debt of 40 t 50,000 dollars.)
That's a 10,000 dollar difference.
(How does he plan to pay for it?)
Wait.
How did you get the loan?
I got about 5,000 to 8,000 dollars...
as a tax refund when I closed down my business.
I used my house as a collateral.
- You used your house. - And also insurance.
- Whose house? - It's my house.
- It's the house I am living in. - When I do a fishing show,
I sometimes spend 500 to 600 dollars a month on gas.
It cost me about 1,000 dollars to do an eating show.
So I spend about 2,000 dollars.
But you earn 500 dollars. 1,500 dollars is a deficit.
- It's a minus. - You're losing money.
- That's a lot. - I have to make up for the loss.
That's why I am doing a part-time job.
You can't afford to live without the job. You can't make contents.
So why are you trying to quit that job?
I live with the money I saved while doing the part-time job.
The viewers support me.
I think I have to concentrate...
on my channel.
But you only broadcast three times a week.
Yes. I run the show three times a week.
I was actually planning to quit it in March.
(Is he planning to quit broadcasting his show?)
Your show?
- Your channel? - No. I mean the job.
- The job. - I planned to quit the job...
- in March... - The job.
- to concentrate on my channel. - I was glad to hear it.
But he meant quitting his job.
Does that mean you will be broadcasting more often?
I will do it all week long.
Other BJs spend...
about 30,000 dollars on equipments.
I guess they spend about 50,000 to run a channel.
A lot of people quit...
after a year because they can't make a living.
But I am lasting...
quite long, so I think I am half way to success.
If I try just a little more...
(His blood boils.)
I think I have a chance to...
(There's no sign of change.)
You have the debt of 50,000 dollars.
And you only earn 500 dollars a month.
Don't you regret becoming a creator?
My motto is...
"Have no regrets."
I am trying to achieve my dream,
so I have no regrets. I'm glad I started it.
Some tough things happened along the way,
but I am happy right now.
But he doesn't seem to be doing harm to other people.
- He doesn't ask for money. - Right.
He used his own house as a collateral to get the loan.
Yes. But isn't that what he should do?
As for the gifts, when it's our parents' birthday...
or when it's a holiday,
I pay for everything because he can't afford it.
Even until now, Mother and I...
pay for food.
What if you just leave him be?
Let him live the way he wants.
It's his life after all.
At first, I thought he'd figure it out on his own.
So I just watched him for several years.
But he is incapable of straightening up his life.
When the divorce issue came up,
Mother got shocked and collapsed.
She's been taking medication for hypertension for years.
She was depressed too.
I wanted to persuade him because of Mother's health.
In a way, the little brother...
has been patient. He had to work...
while his brother was studying at a 4-year college.
He worked at a factory and paid for the parents' living.
You are doing everything you want.
Are you married?
Yes.
Do you think his wife wouldn't complain?
Wouldn't she complain to him about acting like the only son?
Right? When this goes on, he'd have to sever...
the relationship with his brother at one point.
He came out here because he doesn't want that to happen.
(He's sad.)
Your mother is 70.
Other people work as a hobby at that age.
I am sorry about that.
But?
But I think she will still work...
even if I have another job.
If you work...
and help the family,
your mother would work with less pressure.
Honestly,
just thinking about my channel is overwhelming enough.
- I don't... - Oh, my gosh.
What do you...
think about your brother worrying about you?
- He's worried for no reason. - He's worried for no reason.
- I will be fine. - Right.
Now I feel like you are worried for no reason.
He doesn't thank you at all for worrying about you.
And yet you continue to worry about him.
It's bad for both of you.
You said it at a wrong timing.
He's doing that because he's your family.
He can't just say, "Let him live however he wants to."
Because he's family, he can't do that.
But you don't understand it.
(Why do you worry about me? I am happy.)
Do you have a goal or a plan?
I want to continue running my channel.
(It's so frustrating.)
(He consistently talks about what he wants.)
(I can't wait to press the button.)
Do you have a role model?
I don't have a role model. I trust myself.
- He's very stubborn. - He loves himself too much.
He loves himself too much.
I want to make about 2,000 dollars a month.
I think that would be enough to make a living.
All right. Hello will end here.
- He's very stubborn. - I know.
Let's stop.
He won't change.
He says he's too happy right now.
(My head hurts.)
Did hearing that make you sad?
Did you think he was going to change?
Yes. But...
(He thought he would change even a little bit.)
Yes.
Instead of only caring about his dream...
and looking forward,
I hope he will look around and see what's really precious.
If ever...
he ran his channel while being considerate of his family,
I would completely support him. I'd be on his show.
In my case,
I have more talents than him.
- I sing well. - Really?
- He's bragging himself. - This is how frustrated he is.
(He must be very frustrated.)
I...
He's frustrated.
But he says it's not true.
I want him to be able to...
know what's really important.
When you regret something, it's already late.
I hope it won't be too late.
That's an honest, desperate comment.
He means every word.
(That's his honest feeling.)
Our writer wrote a question on the direction board.
They want us to ask him how he thinks about what his brother said?
But I really hate to ask him that question.
- I think we better not. - If Se Hyun hears...
- I don't want to hear it either. - his answer,
I'm afraid I might give up on him.
Bbak Gu, could you ask him instead of me?
I mean, Bbaek Ga, not Bbak Gu. My gosh.
"Don't do it! Don't do it!"
"Don't do it!"
(Don't ask that question! Don't do it!)
(It's been 20 years since I made my debut as a singer.)
- I'm sorry. - It's Bbaek Ga.
I don't know.
Sir, what do you think about what your brother said?
(Bbaek Ga asked what he thinks about his brother's honest feeling.)
(You know what I meant, right?)
(Was Se Hyun's sincerity conveyed to him?)
The first thing that came to my mind...
I will look around me from now on,
so let's do the show together tomorrow.
(Let's do the show together tomorrow.)
What did he say?
(My gosh.)
(His answer is beyond everyone's expectation.)
- He said he'll look around him. - He asked to do the show tomorrow.
I asked him to do the show with me tomorrow.
(He's proud of himself.)
(Dizzy)
I said I didn't want to ask that question.
Change the name of your channel to "Frustration TV".
(You have no intention of growing up.)
All right. Let's start voting.
- Bbaek Ga. - I think it's a worry.
- Cheer up. - Thank you.
He asked you to come around before it's too late.
If you lose this chance, you won't have any in the future.
He seems to have gone too far.
So I also think it's a worry.
I definitely think it's a worry.
Since they're family, I think it's a worry.
Everyone, please don't point the button towards him.
Point it towards Se Hyun instead.
He might think...
- you're giving him balloons. - Balloons?
So please point it towards Se Hyun so he won't misunderstand.
- Vote if you think it's a worry. - This is the worst case.
(What does the audience think?)
- All right. 5, 4, - 5, 4,
- 3, 2, 1. - 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Now we'll see how many votes he got.
I bet he got more than 100 votes.
(The last digit is 8.)
(He frustrated everyone so much.)
- 168 votes. - 168 votes.
(Unbelievable)
My goodness.
(168 votes)
"A Man Who Can't".
Hello.
I'm a 43-year-old...
- He's 43. - man.
(Imitating phone ringing sound)
"Hi. I'm with my friends right now."
"Do you want to join us? Come on. Come join us."
(He's acting cute.)
This may sound like bragging,
but I'm an insider.
However, I have an unspeakable concern.
I don't have a girlfriend.
Why? He's a popular man.
"When will I meet the right girl for me?"
"What are you saying? You have a lot of female friends."
People always take me wrong...
without knowing the situation I'm in.
"I've never seen anyone who's as funny as you."
"You're so charming."
"Really? Then shall we start dating?"
"We're dating from today."
The next day.
(The next day)
"Did you sleep well, my girlfriend?"
"What? I was too drunk last night, so I can't remember what happened."
"Let's just stay as friends."
Things like this happened many times.
"You were joking when you asked me out, right?"
"You're so hilarious."
(Laughing)
Isn't he so good at this?
"Hey, I'm sorry."
"Let's forget that we agreed to start dating."
(Was he dumped again?)
I'm so frustrated because I was rejected by every girl I asked out.
- I hope I won't be single... - "Let's forget about it."
my entire life.
I really want to get married this year.
Please help me find someone.
(Please help me find someone.)
Both Bbaek Ga and Jong Min are still single.
Do you have any concerns about dating or marriage?
My dad got married at a young age.
He got married in his early 20s.
He got married at a young age.
Because my dad couldn't enjoy his youth,
since I was a little child...
"Dad, I'm going to kindergarten."
"Okay. Be good, and don't get married too young."
- Really? - You're lying.
- It's true. - No way.
- He never lies. - It's true.
- It's possible. - When I come home after school,
my dad said, "Welcome home. Don't get married too young."
- He still says the same thing. - That's true.
I heard that his father always says that to him.
He still tells me not to get married yet.
He tells me to enjoy my life before I get married.
(My dad told me to enjoy the present.)
I see. What about you, Jong Min?
I have the same concern,
so I'm hoping to get advice as well.
I guess it really is spring now...
seeing that we received a story like this.
This is a story of a 43-year-old single man.
Please come out.
(Who is the 43-year-old single man who wants to date someone?)
(He reminds me of someone.)
(Only popular people can greet other people like this.)
I thought he was Kenny G.
(Choi Dong Min)
(His long, curly hair looks familiar.)
(He looks like Bbaek Ga too.)
I thought another Bbaek Ga came here.
Bbaek Ga, please come here.
Bbaek Ga actually had that hairstyle before...
with the same mustache.
Maybe because I went to church earlier today,
he reminded me of the resurrection.
(He reminded me of the resurrection.)
The resurrection?
I attended the service this morning, so I thought of the resurrection.
- He looks like Bbaek Ga. - Bbaek Ga used to get that too.
It can be very confusing to me.
- Anyway, he looks great. - Two Bbaek Gas on my sides.
(Bbaek Ga on his left and right)
Bbaek Ga on my left, and Bbaek Gu on my right.
(Let me correct it.)
- You mean, Bbak Gu. - Oh, right. Bbak Gu.
Please introduce yourself.
Hello, everyone.
I...
- What was that? - Hello.
I am Choi Dong Min, and I'm still single.
I'm a soldier of the single men unit who is on the front line.
- Welcome. - It's nice to meet you all.
(Welcome.)
While everyone else was cheering as he entered,
only one person nodded...
and made a gesture like this.
Ha Yul thought he was also growing his hair to donate it.
I see.
(He recognized a like-minded person.)
Ha Yul, wave at the man who will also donate his hair.
Hi.
- But... - He's so cute.
- he had his hair permed. - He'll also donate his hair?
I can't donate my hair since it's damaged.
It's damaged too much.
It's not that you've been single your whole life, right?
That's right. If I have been single my entire life,
- It'd be a big problem. - I wouldn't be on this show.
I would be in a documentary.
- Right. - I'll go to film a documentary.
(She's summoned to an educational show.)
I'll be back shortly.
Anyway, I have dated about 10 women.
When I was younger, my relationships lasted quite long.
But now, my relationships don't last long.
Most of them didn't last longer than 100 days.
- Your relationships? - Yes.
How long has it been since your last relationship?
I think it's been 3 or 4 years.
- 3 or 4 years? - It hasn't been so long.
Do you have any female friends whom you have a crush on...
or keep in touch with?
No. There's none.
When I was younger, I had many female friends,
but most of them got married.
The stories of the women I played earlier...
- were in the past. - That's right.
The only time I get to hear a woman's voice is when I...
get a promotional call from an insurance company,
when I use an automated phone response,
- or a navigation system. - I see.
Or else, I have no chance.
The only actual person I talk to is my mom.
You're talking to Shinji. It must be the first time...
to talk to a woman in a very long time.
That's right. This is so nice.
I'm so excited.
- I hope this moment lasts forever. - It's been 3 or 4 years.
(The happiest smile in the world)
In your letter,
you called yourself an insider.
You seem to have a lot of friends and be very popular.
Yes. A lot of people invite me to events.
- It's because you're funny. - He has many friends.
I'm the type who hates it when it's awkward.
So I actively lead a conversation...
with the people I meet.
I am popular. It's like...
I'm as popular as cabbage during the rainy season.
That's how popular I am.
You mean, the kimchi making season.
That's right.
Cabbage during the kimchi making season?
- What could that mean? - You need cabbage to make kimchi.
- You can't make kimchi without it. - He's a very important person.
- He's a very important person. - He's a very important person.
That's right. Everyone wants me to be in their parties.
But the women you ask out don't feel the same way?
I thought there was something going on between us.
We drank, went to a karaoke,
drank coffee, and talked about a lot of things.
- Things were going well. - Things were going great.
I just had to ask her out.
When I went home, I called her.
I asked her if she went home safely and talked about some other things,
and then I said, "Let's start dating from today."
"We're a couple from this moment on."
I went to bed feeling so happy.
But I received a text message the next morning.
"I think I was too drunk last night."
- "I think I made a mistake." - That's right. "I was too drunk."
"I went too far last night because of you."
"I'm sorry."
One time, I got rejected when it hadn't even been 24 hours.
- Since you had started dating her? - Yes.
The first thing you saw in the morning...
I wondered if I had a dream.
Many of them thought I was joking.
- They didn't know you were serious. - Exactly.
Why do you think your relationships didn't last long?
- You're so cheerful and look great. - That's right.
I want to know why too.
Is there anything wrong with me?
I think there's something wrong with me.
He's here because he wants to know about it.
I think there's a big difference...
between how women think of me and how I think of myself.
I don't look so bad, right?
- Yes. You're tall too. - Right. I look okay, right?
- I think he's popular to women. - How tall are you?
- I'm 184cm tall. - He's 184cm tall.
I also have a curly hair. Actually, my hair is naturally curled.
- You didn't have your hair permed? - No. It's naturally curled.
- And as for my personality, - He's perfect.
I don't think I have a weird personality.
However, people around me said...
that I look a little too easy,
and I look a little like a womanizer.
Right. I can see that.
You don't take things seriously.
What people see on the outside isn't who I am.
He looks just normal when he first came down here.
But after watching him a little, he doesn't look so normal anymore.
(This person is cracking up.)
He seems a bit flippant.
There is a famous man among the audience...
who is captivating our attention.
How is he related to Dong Min?
- Please say hello. - Seriously.
Hello, I am a model, Han Hyun Min. It's nice to meet you.
Han Hyun Min.
(My goodness.)
Why are you sitting there?
Dong Min is my coworker.
(Everyone is curious.)
- A coworker? - He is my manager.
- He is your manager. - Yes.
Shouldn't he be on "Omniscient Interfering View"?
(I am here to interfere with my manager.)
Tell us which jobs you had beforehand.
In my 20s, I had a lot of dreams...
for the entertainment industry.
I entered an agency.
As what?
An idol singer.
- An idol singer. - An idol singer?
- Yes. - You were an idol singer?
- You were an idol singer? - Wanna One is popular, right?
The title of my first album was "1.0.1".
- That was the title of your album. - Yes, it was "1.0.1".
Did you actually release an album?
- Did you actually release an album? - Yes, I did.
- What was the group name? - 1.0.1.
(It's me, 1.0.1.)
We debuted in 1997.
- 1997? - We debuted...
with SHINHWA.
SHINHWA kept working hard and became the legend...
while we got burnt out.
You can't even get our album now.
- All of them got burnt. - He is funny.
He is funny. A member of 1.0.1 is funny.
- I like your ad-libs. - I released an album...
under 1.0.1.
When Goofy released their sixth album,
- Shin Dong Uk was in the army. - That's right.
I joined the group momentarily and sang.
- You were a guest singer. - Yes.
That didn't go well either,
so I decided to find another line of work...
and got a new job.
Why do you think Dong Min can't get a girlfriend?
I want to know the answer to that question.
I want to know what his problems are.
(Hyun Min is curious himself.)
He has a lot of talent.
Also, he is two years apart from my mom.
(He is two years apart from Hyun Min's mom.)
It's nice.
When I went to a meeting for a shoot,
a few words Dong Min said...
made a scriptwriter spit out her coffee.
- He was that funny. - That's how funny he is.
People should take care of me at the set, right?
When they see me, they go,
"Where is your manager? He is so funny."
"We want to spend time with him." They continue to say that.
He became close to the staff members...
and went skiing with them.
He is an insider.
Dong Min's friends are here as well.
Hello. Are you married?
Yes. Because I didn't want to have those worries,
- I got married last year. - You got married last year.
- How about you? - I am not married yet.
I don't have a girlfriend either.
However, I am not worried...
because I am younger than Dong Min.
We didn't ask you if you are worried.
(Laughing)
Both of you are handsome men.
you should have set him up on a blind date.
I have done it many times.
- Really? - I have done it many times.
I always get a call from him in less than an hour.
"Where are you?" "We parted ways."
("Where are you?" "We parted ways.")
(How could they part ways an hour into the blind date?)
I was so curious that I once called and asked the woman,
"What did you think about Dong Min?"
"He is a funny man."
"What else?"
"That's all." She said that.
- "He is just funny." - "He is just funny."
- "That's all." - "That's all."
I think...
he shows off his specialties and goes home.
- Specialties! - He shows off his specialties.
He doesn't give women time to talk.
- He shows off his specialties. - I know...
exactly he is like.
He can't stand silence.
He has to liven up the atmosphere.
I want to know what kind of specialties you show.
- Show us. - They are old,
but Hyun Min likes them.
- Do you do them for Hyun Min? - They are incredible.
- Hyun Min likes them. - They are hilarious.
He doesn't do what other people do. His specialties are refreshing.
- What? - What are they?
I imitate Lee Seung Youp.
- Lee Seung Youp? - I had never heard it before.
Hyun Min thinks it's refreshing because he doesn't know.
- Only he thinks it's refreshing. - It's refreshing.
Hello, I am Lee Seung Youp.
- He is good. - Hello, I am Lee Seung Youp.
(He sounds similar.)
The secret behind my home runs is Home Run Ball.
(Home Run Ball)
There is that.
- He loves it. - Hyun Min loves it.
He is good, right? Seriously, I laughed in the car...
- for 10 minutes. - You found it funny.
You ruined him.
(You shouldn't have laughed so much.)
How did this make you laugh for 10 minutes?
- Hyun Min loves it. - Seriously.
Give us one more specialty.
I can imitate Sin Gu in "Marriage Clinic: Love and War".
(See you in 4 weeks.)
A married life can be tumultuous at times.
(A married life can be tumultuous at times.)
(The tone of his voice is similar.)
How much do you love yourself?
(He acts with his facial expression.)
He sounds the same!
- He's good. - See you in four weeks.
Regardless of similarities, he is a lunatic.
Seriously.
Shinji, what do you think of his specialties?
I agree with Dong Yeob.
(I agree with Dong Yeob.)
Lara, let's say someone like him showed up on a blind date.
I am sorry. I am not interested.
- Why not? - At first,
I would want to see a serious side.
I guess he becomes anxious when it's quiet.
To Dong Min, making people laugh is...
an obsession.
(To Dong Min, making people laugh is an obsession.)
It works...
- to his disadvantage. - Why?
- You aren't a comedian. - Gosh, it's hot.
- Look at that. - Gosh, it's hot.
Is it true that you can't stand silence?
When a conversation comes to a halt,
I become nervous. I don't know what to say.
Then you say what's unnecessary.
He tells jokes.
There are people like him...
among junior comedians.
Jeong Jong Chul was the same when he was becoming famous...
as Okdongja.
I said, "He is the one who is good at impersonation."
He said, "Hello."
"Oh, you are Okdongja." And I slapped him on the shoulder.
(He unleashed his specialties.)
You must have been flustered.
- "You are funny." - You must have been shocked.
"You are funny."
Every time I slapped him on the shoulder...
(His specialties were unending.)
"Stop it, you jerk!"
You couldn't help but swear.
If someone continues to do that,
- it's exhausting. - That's right.
Do you have any other worries for Dong Min?
If I put it nicely,
he is economical.
If I don't put it nicely,
he is miserly.
One time, Dong Min, a friend, and I...
went on a trip to Donghae.
We were shopping for groceries...
when Dong Min offered to make Manila clam kalguksu.
He went into the sea...
and brought something.
He dived and got Manila clams.
(She can't believe her ears.)
A woman who is getting to know him...
might hate those behaviors.
I heard this story for the first time,
but there are many similar stories.
(Are there more stories?)
One time, a couple of friends and women...
- Were there women? - Yes. All of us went to the sea.
He pulled out a diving suit...
and wore it. Then he went into the sea...
- to catch clams. - A diving suit.
He took out those clams to make kalguksu.
When women wanted to go to a nice restaurant,
he took out the clams he caught...
and made kalguksu again.
He is obsessed with clam kalguksu.
Women don't like...
those behaviors.
I am the type...
who doesn't read between the lines.
You trust what people say.
- Yes. - What do you think this means?
- Let's say you have a girlfriend. - Okay.
You received a message that says, "What are you up to?"
"I am at home."
She asked me what I am up to, right?
As I understand it, women say that to ask,
"I want to see you today."
"Do you want to meet up this evening?"
Isn't that right?
- That's right. - Most women agree.
I will give it a try.
Dong Yeob, what are you up to?
- I... - I am not Lee Yeong Ja.
- Oh, okay. - I am not.
(Let's do this right.)
I am a fine woman.
(She hypnotizes herself.)
"I am a fine woman."
- "I am a fine woman." - "I am a fine woman."
Dong Yeob, what are you up to?
Gosh, you caught me.
I am on my way to see you.
I was going to surprise you.
Did someone tell you?
You should have told me in advance so that I could get ready.
We were on the same page.
No, let's break up.
(He broke up with her in a drastic way.)
This is only a skit.
We prepared a few tests.
- The language of couples. - That's right.
These are some situations couples frequently face.
Let's solve them together. The first question.
"We can eat whatever."
What does that mean?
"We can eat whatever."
Number one, I am on a diet.
Number two, buy me something tasty this time.
Number three, choose something I want.
Number four, you can choose.
Number four.
He chose number four.
(Laughing)
Jong Min, what's the answer?
- Number 3. - Number 3.
Choose something I want.
- Choose something I want. - Yes.
Bbaek Ga, what do you think?
- I think it's number 2. - Number 2.
Number two, buy me something tasty this time.
- I think that's the answer. - How about you, Lara?
- Number 3. - Number 3.
- Shinji, do you choose number 3? - Number 3.
For most women,
it would be number three.
How about you?
I say that when it's really okay to eat whatever.
Shinji is like that.
She is easygoing.
For most women, number three is the answer.
(Number 3, choose something I want.)
Number three?
What was number three?
- Choose something I want. - Choose something I want.
Figure out what I want.
- Guess it. - Here comes the second question.
A couple is in the beginning of the relationship...
and the boyfriend wants to kiss.
That's the situation.
The girlfriend pushes him and says,
"Stop it. It's embarrassing outside."
Let's say she said that.
What does that mean?
(His head hurts.)
It could be a short answer question.
Shall we make it a short answer question?
I would wait.
(I would wait.)
Wait?
(Perhaps he should wait to become the expert of relationship.)
Jong Min.
These days,
you shouldn't keep going when a woman says no.
- These days, you get arrested. - Yes.
"These days"? But they are a couple.
- They are a couple. - Their relationship is budding.
In that case, I think she wants him to keep going.
Right?
(His flushed face betrays his sincerity.)
- Your face turned red. - I would keep going.
What do you think it means?
- "Stop it." - I am not...
this bad.
What's the answer?
She wants to kiss, right?
No, the meaning is stronger.
"I will kill you if you stop."
(Only Dong Yeob would come up with a passionate interpretation.)
"If you stop".
I am not saying all people are like this.
Most women would think that when they are...
- with their boyfriends. - That's right.
It's important to know these things.
Is there something...
that makes you worried about dating?
When you read newspapers, there are articles about...
how much money you need to get married...
- in your 30s or 40s. - That's right.
In my current situation,
I don't have anything but my body.
I don't have any money saved up.
How about debt?
Thankfully, I don't have debt either.
Don't you have a debt of 40,000 or 50,000 dollars?
(Are you listening?)
Don't you have a YouTube channel?
(He has no words.)
Actually, I have...
a good sense of economy.
If I don't have money, I don't spend it.
You lead a frugal life.
That's right.
If a woman cares about financial means,
I wouldn't be able to make her happy.
A lot of people remain single because of a financial strain.
There are many people who think they should only get married...
when everything is ready.
You have a friend who got married.
Did you get married...
with plenty of money?
Not many people get married with plenty of money these days.
That's right.
I didn't get married with plenty of money.
Our goal is to buy what we need one by one...
as we live together.
I think he wrote that down somewhere.
Hyun Min, the viewers are watching.
Tell us about Dong Min's charms.
Dong Min is a good man.
If you date him, you will be happy...
each and every day.
Please take Dong Min before it's too late.
I really hope he gets married. Good luck!
(Good luck!)
You are the best.
He can cook very well.
He can clean very well.
He organizes the house...
as well as women drop him.
When you marry him, you could lie on the sofa and say,
"Bring me a cup of water." He would do it.
"I am hungry." Then he would cook for you.
I hope he meets someone nice...
and gets married.
Why don't you talk about your charms?
When I wake up in the morning,
I think to myself, "What fun things will happen today?
I am a cheerful man.
I hope you wouldn't think that I am too weird.
If you like me...
"If you like me..."
Please contact me. Thank you.
All right.
(You will meet someone nice.)
- How about older women? - What?
- Older women. - I like older women. I don't mind.
- Really? - I am Lee Yeong Ja.
(Throwing)
(The most ladylike)
(He has no energy to fight it.)
Dong Yeob told you about me, right?
- I did. - I did everything I could.
(Thank you.)
(We cheer for your love.)
- Let's start with Lara. - Okay.
I don't think it's a worry.
There are personalities that match.
I am certain he will meet a woman who suits him.
I also don't think it's a worry.
Even if he remains single, he will be able to enjoy...
- his life. - My gosh.
What are you talking about?
- Jong Min thinks he should wait. - By himself.
- Jong Min thinks he should wait. - Seriously.
I also don't think it's a worry.
I only saw him for a short while, but he is charming.
- That's right. He is charming. - That's right.
I am sure he will find a nice woman.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Times's up.
"A Man Who Can't".
He will be a man who can.
Show us the result.
(The result)
Did the worry get over 100 votes?
(Did the worry get over 100 votes?)
45 votes.
It's not a worry. You are okay.
Good luck.
This week, "Please Stop This Late Bloomer"...
became the winner. Congratulations.
We will give the winner the prize money.
Until the day we are all worry-free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
Thank you.
("Hakuna Matata" by DreamNote)